Tuesday, August 30, 2016

This Week in Biloxi! 8/22/2016

(Ashley's Disclaimer: Apparently a whole week went by and I didn't realize it. So these are out of order. So sorry.)

We were tracting this week and were being met with the usual "I'm good." or "Not interested" through barely cracked doors. That is until we met Christian. Christian is a young boy, maybe 8 or 9. We knocked on the glass door to the house and had to bite our lips to stop from laughing as Christian ran up to the door, chocolate cupcake with chocolate icing in hand. He slipped and barely caught himself as came flying to the door. Luckily the cupcake was safe. 
He opened the door, we introduced ourselves. Christian yelled for his Mamaw. His Papaw came instead. Introduced ourselves again and then introduced the message we share. We said "We are sharing a message about Jesus Christ and the gospel He established during His ministry. Is that something you would be interested in hearing more about?" 
Cue Christian. "YES!"
Then Papaw. "Christian! Go inside!"
Hey, at least the kids like us! 
😉😂

As I'm sure y'all have already seen, to say the South is gettin a lot of rain is an understatement. We only had Sacrament meeting yesterday because so many people were in Louisiana helping with the flooding. It is sad to hear about and see pictures of the houses down there. Most of the men and some of the women from the ward have been down there all weekend helping to knock down walls, tear out carpet, and move belongings to the curb for someone to pick up. One of the members we had dinner with showed up pictures of the scene down there. So sad. There are dead animals that were caught in the flooding. Piles of stuff lining the streets. And people going to town knocking down walls that once held valued family photos, now water damaged and ruined.  😖
Pray for them folks. They need it. 

Yesterday a miracle happened. After Sacrament meeting two members walked up to us and said they had a couple hours to come out with us. That never happens y'all. We have to pull teeth to get them to come out with us. But hey, we'll take it. We went right out with Sister Ganshaw and visited Brother Terry Carnley. We have been teaching him like an investigator since he hasn't been to church since he was baptized at age 8, 23 years ago. He is sort of creepy flirty, so it was nice to have reinforcement to keep the flirting at bay. 
We then headed to the Haleys. They are a very less active elderly couple. We visit them and show them the love that the ward has for them. Wonderful people. Also Tony Haley lets us know what the weather is so we don't get caught in torrential downpour too often. 
Then to the Griffins. Another less active elderly couple. They were found by a miracle years ago as the Elders were biking down the road to an appointment and one of the Elder's handlebars turned suddenly onto their street. They got baptized. And then kept going to their Pentecostal church every other week. Their preacher hates us (the Mormons) and does everything in his power to keep them away from us. It has worked. Now Brother Griffin avoids us and Sister Griffin is caught up in doctrinal misunderstandings involving where Jesus will put His foot down when He comes again and the temple garment, put there by the preacher.  We went to visit them and invite them to church. 😐
Then back home to await the coming of Sister Cardon to take us to teach Megin and Kayla Oliver. They have been coming to YW and Girls' Camp and showing some interest in the church. Sister Cardon is the Young Women's President so it is perfect! 
Then to dinner at her house with Zasha, their hunting dog. Love that dog. She has to be tethered to a handmade weight/tether in the middle of the kitchen to keep her from roaming the whole house. She sits on the upside down bowl that sits on top of the 80 lbs of plates. The stack keeps getting bigger as Zasha gets stronger and can pull the weights. Funny dog with a beard. 

I was reading my patriarchal blessing this past week and realized that many of the blessings that are promised, are made richer by me serving a mission. One such promise involves my future home being a refuge and sanctuary for my children, and their friends and associates. As I thought of this, I imagined the home that I could establish, with the help of my husband of course, and then the home that would be made only richer with the experiences and lessons learned on a mission. It made me appreciate my mission that much more. 

Favorite quote: "We could use a little of the rain from Louisiana. It is SO dry here!" -Southern woman that isn't  outside trudging through puddles and soggy grass, or swimming through the air. 😒💦

Well, here is to another week of wondrous experiences and life changing lessons! 🍾(that's apple cider btw.)

LOVE YOU!!! 

I'm Drowning. 8/29/2016

Okay so not literally. But pretty close. 

There is a hurricane/tropical storm/depression forming in the gulf, which is causing torrential downpour in the coastal areas. And it is only going to get worse. 😁 So excited for so much rain!
Yesterday it rained so hard that the roads flooded and the stoplights all were flashing yellow. We had planned to go out to Vancleave and visit some people. Nope. Didn't happen. Since most of the roads where we needed to go are dirt, and would have become mud, we reevaluated. Then were told to go home and remain there until it was safe. So we made cookies in mugs and watched the Testaments. And I finished the Book of Mormon for the second time, reading it in one month. It was incredible. It is so marked up, highlighted, and color tabbed. I am so happy! Now onto reading "Jesus The Christ" 

This week has been pretty great, not just weather wise. Here ya go...

Monday: Got to email y'all, so obvious plus. And we got to visit Brittni Bass, a very less active young mother. She is struggling right now. Her daughter got taken away by DCFS and she is fighting to get her back. Her new car just got totaled. She can only work part time at Walmart, so she is looking for another job. 
Needless to say, she needs love. We went to visit her with Sister Scaturo, the Relief Society 2nd counselor. It was a good visit. 
Then we went to meet with Jennifer Schoeller, a referral from the D'Iberville Elders. She claimed she was a member, but no one could find her records. Not even Salt Lake. So we were supposed to teach her like an investigator and she had a date in September. All was good. We had a plan to teach her as such...then we looked at the ward directory. And found her. She is listed a less active member. Sister Scaturo said she thought the name sound familiar. So Jennifer's records have been in OS Ward!

TuesdayExchanges with STLs. I stayed with Sister Bennett in OS. We walked to all of our appointments, half of what we usually do on bikes. Turns out we travel long distances in one day. The totals from Fitbit.. drumroll.... 22,968 steps = 10 miles. That means we normally bike around 20 miles. A DAY! Missionary WERK! 😎
 I need to find a way for my Fitbit to track how far we bike. 'cause it ain't doing it right now. 

WednesdayDistrict Meeting! Talked about sacrifice and how we as missionaries can learn about and teach it. My favorite note from the meeting, 
"You are leaving the foundation for future missionaries and for the Kingdom of God. What are you willing to sacrifice for that?"
Then we went to help Sister Shillcox with her house. She is pregnant and very sick right now. She can't get up from the couch she is so sick. So we go over and help clean her house. I clean the kitchen and living room. Dishes, floors, fridge, laundry room, anything that she needs. Then Steady does the bathroom and hallway and other odd jobs. Then we talk and discuss gospel things. 
Off to Jennifer's to talk about how we got the Book of Mormon in a discussion we call "Why Mormons are Called Mormons." Look it up. It is a video by Lanny Owens. It is a great everyday missionary discussion you can teach to anyone. It was a great lesson and we got to learn more about Jennifer. Also she has an ADORABLE puppy she adopted from the shelter. So obviously it was instantly 10x better! 😉🐕
We had dinner at the Scaturo's. Sister Scaturo's nonmember husband just got back from active duty as a CB in the military. He is still adjusting back to normal life at home. He is very rough and tough. But I like 'im. He's 'ight. It was a good dinner of chicken and green beans. Delicious!
We got the car, so that made the day even better! It would have been EVEN better if the Elders had left us more miles, but we are making do with the 160 miles we have for 7 days. Nevermind the fact they used 361 of our 1000 miles in one week alone. Elders.... 😒

Thursday: Visited with Sister Thelma Thomas. Wonderful woman. She had a stroke a year ago, leaving her paralyzed on her right side. She is doing what she can to get some of the feeling back, but the doctors aren't optimistic about anything coming back. We visit her and invite her to church since she hasn't been since she had her daughter, 34 years ago. Her daugher Ashley got baptized a couple of years ago though, so that's good! 
We had planned to see Sister Salterelli, another less active. She has had breast cancer 4 times now, among other medical problems. It just returned for the fifth time. 😥 Y'all cancer is... well it sucks. I feel like sometimes I am surrounded by its destruction. 😭
Needless to say, Sister Salterelli wasn't up to meet with us, so we prayed about who to see instead, since our backups weren't feeling right. We both thought of the Mclains. So we headed there. It was definitely divine inspiration. Kim, their daughter, was struggling with stuff. Then Sister Mclain came home from work as a CNA at a rehabilitation/nursing home with sad news. One of her patients, a 36 year old man whose body had started attacking itself last year, and was in kidney failure since he was refusing dialysis, had passed away the prior morning. She had the day off, so she wasn't there when he passed, meaning that he was all alone. She broke down and was so sad. Her daughter Kim ran to her, and in the most Christlike manner I have seen, comforted her Mom as if it her daughter. She said things like "He is so glad he had you as his nurse. He is looking down from a better place and is so happy." 
It was very touching. They both have gone through a lot together that has made them very close. When Sister Mclain got married to Brother Mclain, it was a welcome change from the past abuse and darkness. 
They fed us dinner and we got to talk about how they were doing, and their plans for getting sealed on September 10th!!
 LOVE THEM SO MUCH!!❤❤❤❤❤

Friday: Weekly Planning! Lots of optimistic plans made for this area! Now to execute them! 
Then off to the Haley's! Love Tony and Rose! They are the cutest elderly couple. They got married, then divorced, but still lived together. One of the Sisters convinced them to get married again, so they did. They are so cute! Brother Haley watches out for us and makes us aware of weather warnings, such as the one that occurred on Sunday. He told us if the roads were flooded, we did NOT have to drive through them! Hahaha 😂 Love them!
We had dinner at the Beecher's. Sister Beecher broke her hip last year and hasn't been able to walk since. She is in a wheelchair and kind of grumpy about life. Her son David has disablilties, but it only makes him more fun! He made us pizza. Well Pizza Hut made us pizza, but David it put it in the oven and warmed it up from the night before, so he can take whatever credit he would like. 😉 
Most of the dinner was full of the two of them arguing over whether Maine was a suitable place to live. It is not in Sister Beecher's opinion, but David thinks it would be cool. Made for some interesting dinner entertainment. 
Then we went to meet a referral from Brother Underwood. His son. Very less active, with a nonmember wife, so we were excited to teach them and bring them to church. We set up an appointment for this Thursday so we shall see how that goes. 
The highlight of the day, seeing Abraham Lincoln (Brother Wilson) He is so funny! He wants to have another child. At 78. Like HIS own child. His daughter told him that wasn't going to work, but he wants another little baby, so we discussed what he could do instead. Adoption was suggested. He agreed that adopting a orphan child from one of the Native American tribes in Idaho, where they used to live, was a good idea. 
I suggested a puppy. He said he would like that. 
I suggested a cute lab or collie. He agreed.
Then he decided he wanted a macaw instead. He used to have one named Paco that thought he was its mate. And he wants another one like it. Another thing that won't really work out how he wants it. 
I'm still firm that a puppy would be the best idea. AND it means I could play with it so.... 🤔 I'm not biased at all. 😬😇

Saturday: Service with Miss Gail. She has offered her house up for a place to stay when I come back to visit. So kind. Love her so much!
Quick lunch before heading to the library for the Family History class. So fun! I am learning more as I teach people how to use Family Search. Highlight from the class:
Older woman asks for help finding her convict great uncle. He was a serial killer that escaped prison in the 30s or 40s. When he escaped, he began using an Italian man's name to keep from being caught. That has greatly complicated finding him and doing his family history work. Long story short, we couldn't find him, but the woman looked over at me and looked at my eyelashes. She gets all sassy and says, "Girl! I am so jealous of your eyelashes!" Then looking at Sister Rose says, "It took me 20 years to get over the resentment and envy of my husband's new wife. How long do you think it will take me to get over the envy of her eyelashes?!" 
I died. 😂😂
Dinner at Shunta Thomas'. Baked BBQ chicken, cornbread, steamed cabbage with bacon and salt pork, macaroni and cheese (it's used as a side dish down here), and homemade apple cobbler. DELICIOUS!! 
Next she said she is going to make us chitlins. Look it up. They aren't actually that bad.
We watched Joseph Smith: The Prophet of the Restoration and discussed it. Shunta and her children are converts of only a couple of years, so we have been helping them get up to speed on the doctrine and history. It was such a good lesson! I could feel my testimony getting stronger as I watched and then talked about the video. 

Sunday: Church with Stephanie Tyzner, a less active, and Dianna Vega, a recent convert. It was so good. We, all the missionaries from OS and Biloxi Wards, sang for the farewell of Allan Zieber. It was so cool! We sang "As Sisters in Zion/We Will Bring The World His Truth" and oh my, it was powerful! I proudly belted the last part where we all join in and sing "We are as the armies of Helaman. We have been taught in our youth and we will be the Lord's missionaries to bring the world His truth!" Goosebumps. 
Everyone was crying as we sang. It was so amazing!
I love being a missionary y'all!!!
Dianna gave me a wood carved feather pen from Mexico. So kind of her since she only met me that day, but she is just that kind. Love her!
Lunch, the out to appointments. Only to turn around due to state of emergency rain. 
Rain let up around 4:30, just in time for us to head to our dinner appointment at the Mallyas. Wonderful family. Sister Mallya is from Jamaica and served her mission there with her husband, who is from India. Their youngest daughter, Arya, gave me a bow she made out of ribbon and beads! 
We went to visit Mi'kala Mims, a recent convert that has become less active. She was sick, but I got a picture of the flaming cross in her neighbor's yard. Yep. Not sure everyone in the area is happy about that one. 

This week was awesome! It's all about attitude! The area is still struggling, but we found 3 new investigators, now we just need them to answer our calls and texts!
Like my planner says, "We are the architects of our own happiness." So I shall make my own happiness! 😁

❤❤❤❤❤LOVE YOU!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

Thursday, August 18, 2016

Why Does This Keep Happening? 8/15/16



As soon as I am soaring high and lovin life... the work gets worse. 😒

We struggled hardcore this week in numbers. I know I know. "It isn't all about the numbers" whatever. Numbers matter okay. We taught 1 other lesson. 1! 
Numbers for this week:

B: 0
C:0
Date: 1
Sac: 0
Prog: 0
New: 1
MP lesson: 2
Other: 1
LA/RC: 9
AM: 6
Ref. Rec.:2
Ref. Con.: 1
BOM: 1
Tract: 1 hr
Service: 8

Yep. We are bomb. This area is SO awesome and EVERYONE wants to listen. EVERYONE... Not. 😒

BUT alas... we are pushing through and doing our best not to go insane. Tryin. Not sure how well it's working, but hey. What can ya do? 

We have tried almost everyone we can think of. Knocked on doors. Walked up doors only to have them look us in the face and slam the door. I am learning all sorts of stuff about how people truly can be. They are crazy. To give you an idea of how rough it has been, here is a funny story. We were tracting on Saturday. Lots of closed doors, blinds hurriedly shut, and drapes drawn. Then one blessed door opened and a nice woman named Kristi opened. We did the usual door approach that varies along the lines of "We are sharing an exciting message about how families can be together forever. Is that something y'all would be interested in?" We expected the usual "No. I already have Jesus." Instead Kristi said, "Yeah. Sure. Y'all want to come in?" Sister Steadman started to say "Okay. You have a blessed day ma'am" Then we both looked at each other and said "oh my. Yes we would love to come in!"  
We discussed what our message is about and how it can bless families. She said she and her husband had been wanting to go back to church, but didn't know if they wanted to back to their Baptist church. Which I might mention is RIGHT next to our church. Just sayin. It's the same distance, and brings you ETERNAL happiness! 😉😬 She has to wait until her husband gets back from off shore before she will make a decision. SO... we wait. With fingers crossed and prayers in our hearts. 🙏

The service at the Barkin Basement is paying off. Miss Gail, my favorite person, who knows a little about our church, is now our best friend! She was worried when we told her one or both of us might be leaving tomorrow. We let her know when we found out this morning that we were both staying. She said to celebrate she was going to take us out to lunch. So we met her at a Italian buffet in town and had a wonderful lunch. Then she wanted to spend more time with us because "we have a wonderful happiness and light about us." So of course we had to help her shop for groceries. SO FUN! She is a wonderful woman! We will continue to do service with her and little by little talk more and more about the gospel! 

Other than that, there isn't much going on around here. Just the regular missionary work stuff. 😬 Puttin in the WERK! 

Yep. Well y'all have a wonderful week! LOVE YOU!! 😘😘😘😘😘😘🐿